MATURITY

MATURITY

Maturity is the art of being responsible for your actions and behaving in a reasonable way according to the circumstances and the culture of the society one lives in.

We meet lot of people on daily basis and we jump straight into conclusion create a firm mindset about a person without even knowing them properly.

Everyone grows old ,but not everyone is mature.

Maturity is not when you talk about big things or behave like a older person rather maturity is when you start valuing or understanding small small things and start implementing those set of values into your lives.

There are 4 kinds of People:-

Acts mature and are mature

Acts mature but are immature

Acts Immature but are mature

Acts immature and are Immature

Maturity is not measured by Age. Some people become mature at a very young age while others never able to fully gain maturity. I would like to share one of my experience with you all.

Recently my husband and I throw a party at our house. Two beautiful little angels also came with their parents. One was 2yrs old her name is Gabi has the most contagious smile and laugh [too young to understand things ] and the other one was 3yrs old her name is Myra who handle herself with utmost dignity and amazing character. When the party gets over she came to me and my husband hugged us both and said to me “ Thank you Su”  It was so beautiful and touching .To be very honest I didn’t expect it from 3yrs old . I have attended so many parties with my parents but don’t remember I have done something like that when I was of her age .I wish I could do that. There were around 8 to 10 people who were present at the living room she went to each and everyone hugged them and said Goodbye.

She brings a big smile on everyones face in just 5 minutes. Here is this little innocent girl Myra showing everyone maturity.

In simple words maturity means sensitivity, manners and how you react.

Here are some signs of Maturity . Knowing them will help you to follow and move one step forward towards maturity.

GANPATI BAPPA MORYA MANGAL MURTI MORYA

1.  YOU BECOME GOD FEARING – Maturity is try to obey the rules of their religion and live in a way that is considered morally right.

• Greet everyone with a smile
• Aspire to live the most sinless life possible
• Thankful and grateful to God for everything
• Protect from harmful thinking and behaviour
• Never disrespect anyone’s emotions or feelings
• Treat everyone with kindness
• Never let anyone down
• Gentle, Patient , Meek
• Be optimistic
• Be contented stop complaining

2.  IRRELEVANT TALKS NO LONGER EXCITE YOU – Maturity is to draw the conversation to a clear close. No longer entertain any conversation that does not involve real meaning or opinion.

• Learn something new everyday
• Being more creative
• Planning on big projects
• Pay no attention to Gossips or backbiting
• Don’t interfere in others people life
• Reading newspaper, books, novels or any motivational quotes
• Don’t spend maximum time on phone or chatting
• Writing something relevant and aiming high

3. YOU FORGIVE MORE EASILY – Maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back.

• Let go of your anger and move forward
• Not revengeful at all
• Avoid rash behaviour
• Don’t hold grudges
• Don’t bully, devalue or abuse anyone
• Don’t enjoy feeling superior

4. YOU DON’T JUDGE EASILY – Maturity is maintain a non judgmental attitude and to look for the positive aspects of people and situations.

• Never Judge anyone without knowing the whole story
• Never judge by the opinion of others
• Don’t get provoked easily
• Look for basic goodness
• Give other person benefit of doubt
• Understand everyone is different

5. YOU DON’T FORCE LOVE – Maturity is learn to accept gracefully , respect the decision of an individual and move on peacefully.

• Know how to accept rejection
• Never beg for someone’s time, commitment, affection or attention
• Let them go respectfully no point holding on to someone who will never love you back
• Know their limits 

6. YOU NO LONGER TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY – Maturity is not taking everything personally, but understanding the situation of others. 

• Dont succumb to peer pressure
• Not easily offended
• Remain calm
• Don’t feel insecure about the appearance or style
• Unshaken by flattery or criticism
• Stop proving how intelligent or talented you are
• Ability to understand and manage your emotions

7. YOU REMAIN SILENT THAN TO ENGAGE IN ARGUMENT OR FIGHT – Maturity is better to lose an argument and win a relationship

• Avoid getting into freaking arguments
• Talk sensible
• Control anger and settle differences without damage or violence
• Don’t shout unnecessarily 
• Walk away from toxic people who threatens your peace of mind
• Taking responsibility for owns actions instead of blaming or yelling at others
• More tolerant
• Being calm and peaceful

8. YOU BECOME MORE HEALTH CONSCIOUS – Maturityis when you care much about health and hygiene.

• Wake up early in the morning
• Meditate a little daily
• Exercise to stay fit and live a healthy life
• Eat healthy food 
• Avoid overeating or under eating
• Take up a hobby
• Have adequate sleep than going out on weekends

9. TRUE HAPPINESS LIES IN GIVING AND SHARING – Maturity is understanding thatPeople and relationships are far more important than the materialistic things.

• Helping others and not hurting
• Enthusiastic full of life
• Like to comfort and be comforted
• Doing good deeds
• Sharing your good fortune with others.
• Encouraging and being supportive of others
• Not envy or criticism
• Standing up for justice for yourself and others.

10. SPEND WISELY – Maturity is to Keep track of spending and income to get accurate picture of financial  situation.

• Understand the value of money
• Always spend less than you earn
• Thinking carefully about the purchases.
• Prioritise things
• Avoid debt and live within your means
• Do research before going for shopping
• Stop buying expensive things just to show off

11. BECOME MORE RESPONSIBLE – Maturity is to strive and compete for your objectives. Invest energy in setting goals and activities and work harder to achieve them.

• Well organised and self disciplined
• Stop being dramatic
• Don’t react to success or failure strongly
• Ambitious believe in actions
• Don’t expose their goals
• Make promises and keep them 
• Loyal and trustworthy 
• Keep upgrading themselves, work on their flaws
• Meet deadlines without complaining
• Good decision maker
• Build self confidence
• Never blame others for their rejections or failure in life

12. ABLE TO DEAL WITH MOST OF THE SITUATIONS IN LIFE – Maturity is to Analyse the problem seek many solutions and choose the best.

• Be flexible and adaptable
• Ability to see the situation through various perspectives
• Try to find out the positive aspects of the negative situation
• Compromise well where required
• Apologise and make amends
• Learn from their past experiences
• Even tempered
• Speaking up for themselves if they feel disrespected

CONCERN ABOUT PEOPLE,ABOUT THINGS ,ABOUT LIFE IS AN ACT OF MATURITY

With every passing day people grow older but only few grow mature.

All the very best………Wishing you all good luck to be stronger, Mature and happier